Secrets of a Successful Relationship Revealed: Find Passionate and Juicy Peace and Joy - not Conflict and Anger

ABOUT Phil Mayes

Phil Mayes
Phil and Maude Mayes live in Santa Barbara, California, having started in London, England and New York City respectively. Phil is a software engineer and photographer. Maude works with adults with developmental disabilities and owns a business importing and selling antique European lin More...



“Do you realize that in the time we’ve known each other, we’ve never argued?”
It was that initial insight that led us to explore our relationship and eventually blog about it. We were astounded again and again by the peaceful nature of our union. We found an amazing lack of conflict and an ever increasing experience of joy, ease and harmony, and you can, too.

These ideas are simple but very powerful. We believe that if you are open to the possibility of a different way of relating, of changing your frame of reference, a magical transformation can take place. We know from our experience that it is real and tangible: not a theory, not thoughts, not a collection of ideas.
It was just such a gift to me, as I needed a bit of inspiration on relationships. I totally get where you are coming from and think this is so beautiful to share. It makes it palpable for people to know that they can, indeed, get there and have a great relationship. It gives a lot of tools on the attitude it takes.